I had gotten Ìndigo because i had a betta fish when i was younger, and i really wanted a companion. for context, im 14. im the one paying for everything for my fish, but my mom isnt allowing me to get a bigger tank, a heater, and just the basic necessities for her. I feel so horrible getting her after only 2 days because she wont eat and is glass surfing a lot. i wont be able to provide her with what she needs. it hurts my heart and makes me cry, but i just might have to give her away to have a happier life.
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I’m really sorry. It’s such a bummer when this happens, and it happens a lot. I’m not sure why some parents are so hell bent on controlling situations like this, but I had a very controlling Dad too and I know how you feel.
You could try to share this little guide with your mom to show her the basics of betta care and tell her that there are experts who have informed you that at the very least, it is vital to have a heater and filter for your fish’s health and well-being.
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If that doesn’t work, you may have to rehome your fish, but you obviously care and have the wherewithal to want to give animals the environment and care that they deserve. You’ll be a grown up sooner than you can even imagine and you’ll legally be able to make your own decisions without anyone telling you what you can and can’t do. Hugs.
it’s okay to feel remorseful about getting a fish but be aware that (i’m assuming) wherever you got the fish in would’ve been living in a cup. i didn’t know much or was allowed to get much with my first betta (frank) so i understand where you’re coming from. i think it’s really amazing you’re taking care of a betta so young and are invested in what is needed regardless of if you are ALLOWED to do what’s necessary. give indigo what you can and enjoy ur time with him <3